Maybe don’t get your way
If you’re in a conflict of values over what’s the best course of action…maybe it’s better to not fully get your way. If you do, the other person is likely going to be wholly unhappy. And vice versa.
Sometimes, meeting in the middle can help both of you feel like you got something. That helps relationships from feeling competitive, or worse, one-sided.
Maybe it’s okay to not get your way, all the way…